What Do You Enjoy Missing Doing Before The Corona Virus Quarantine?

Awe, the little things in life we as humans take for granted such as going to the beach, concerts, hanging out with friends, etc have been place on halt due to the Corona Virus outbreak. This has been hard for many since humans are social beings. This new temporary reality can have a lot of people going up the walls but also help see a new perspective or introspective of themselves with the quarantine. How something like going to the grocery stores with lots of varieties to choose from are now dwindling down to very limited options. Which seems daunting but at the same time making things like this become more invaluable. Don't take things in life for granted because something like an outbreak can happen at any given moment. So I ask, what were things you enjoyed before the quarantine?

Be Assertive Over Passive

Being assertive over passive is important when doing anything in life, especially with developing and building relationships with oneself and others. Someone who is assertive possess the characteristics that everyone should want such as leadership, motivated, self-assured, driven, etc.  He or she is aiming high in life by setting goals and trying to reach his or her potential and also willing to live with the consequences.  As I mentioned in one of my previous posts, Risks Are Good, and are the catalysts in reaching someone's goals or potentials in life.  He or she may hit big or fall hard, but that person is not afraid to fail and to try again and again.  Like the saying goes, "Everyone loves a fighter."  This person will stand out from a lot of people.  On the other side of the coin, someone being passive is not seen as a negative thing, but he or she will be unable to reach his or her potential due to be afraid of taking risks and failing.  One will be consistent and not be able to grow on a personal and professional level.  That person is not going through challenges or trying to avoid them and playing it safe.  With the assertive person being inconsistent, but he or she is growing because he or she is taking those risks and facing those challenges to strive to be the best person that he or she can be.  As I written many of times on my blog, life is about experiencing.  The best way is to be assertive and pursuing whatever one is trying to achieve and making the mistakes that will come along the way and learning from them in the pursuit of reaching happiness.

Lessons In Life Are Meant To Be Blessings

Like the old saying goes, "Everything happens for a reason." Whether one knows it or not, lessons we as people learn in life are meant to be blessings.  One may not understand why do certain things happen to me and usually during critical time of his or her life.  When things like this occurs, do not ask why, but learn from those lessons and mature to become a better version of oneself as one is continuously learning throughout in life.  Challenges and adversities arise when one is not really expecting them to happen.  Everything can be good one moment, and then go in a downward spiral the next.  This can cause someone to refocus if he or she has been caught in moment or moments and gone complacent.  Whether something happens, bad or good, take something from it and continue to grow or build from it.  Lessons should be seen as blessings, even if one see it as a negative.  Well, he or she needs to turn that negativity into something positive, because lessons will continue throughout our lifetime.

Seize The Moment

Opportunities: Something we as people take for granted and hope they come at our convenience when we are down on our lucks.  In life, there will be highs and lows, and that is normal.  When we as people are at our highs in life, we should take as much advantage as possible as people and to do a little bit more extra than normal, because there will days when we will have lows, and feel like we are falling behind in time.  In this way, we will reach an average or be consistent; feel like we are still on track of reaching wherever we need to go in life.  I mentioned about how consistency matter in a previous post, Consistency Matters But Look To Improve, and that we as people need to build from consistency when the opportunities present themselves.  Seize the moment, because that is when we as people will shine the most and maybe have that eureka moment as well.  There will be many moments when reaching for goals in general, but that eureka can come early, in the middle, or towards the end of goals.  Whenever that moment comes, be ready and do not shy away from it, and seize it.

Be Great Not Good

My dad once told me, "Good is the evil of great."  He had gotten that from a book.  I had forgotten name of it.  It is easy for someone to settle for being okay or good than to be great.  Everyone has heard of the expression, "Take what you can get or settle."  There is nothing negative about that phrase, because time does move fast and it is better than having nothing at all. No one wants to look back and say, "I have could have done a little better than what I had settle for."  It may be more work and harder to achieve greatness, but one gets to say, "I gave it my all,"  and have no regrets.  Being good limits oneself and holds on to untapped potential.  Even when someone is unsuccessful the first, second, or how many times, keep trying.  Being unsuccessful at something multiple times does not equate to failure.  Life is about experiencing.  Being unsuccessful at something in life is inevitable.  Overcoming barriers in life after multiple unsuccessful attempts is what is going to make someone to  be successful in life.  People learn more from mistakes than not.    From adversities, challenges bourn out stronger character and success.  Don't fear away from being great, take it by the horns.

Act Now

One of the things in life that we as people take for granted is time.  It is probably the most unappreciated resource that should be cherished.  No one really appreciates it until he or she gets too old.  That is why people should act now on any type of projects or goals they have in mind.  To be honest, there is no perfect or right time to do anything.  It is really about seizing the opportunity.  If someone has the time to do it now, go ahead and start.  One should plan out on his or her goals, projects, but when it comes to implementing or carrying out the plan, do it as soon as he or she can.  We as people cannot control time and emergencies and other situations can come up at any minute.  Some people may be skeptical to start anything right away due to a fear of failure or not being ready.  Most people who start anything will run into some obstacles, but that is a part of life.  Life is about experiencing, and going through trials and errors and learning from them, and hopefully sharing those  experiences with people who may be going through the same thing or similar they he or she is going through or have already gone through.  When sharing those experiences, we as people are doing a greater good.  After all, it is a small world.  We as people are going to run into similar paths and obstacles that many before us have gone.  So act now and do not be afraid, because you are not the only one.